Bereavement
Experiencing the loss of a pregnancy, baby or babies is a deeply heartbreaking experience. In your grief, you are not alone. We are here to support you with compassion, understanding, and a community that shares in your pain. Whether you need someone to listen, a space to share your story, or resources to help you through this difficult time, we are here for you. Together, we can honor the memory of your baby and find moments of comfort and healing in the days ahead.
We understand that navigating this journey can be incredibly challenging. To support you every step of the way, we’ve gathered a comprehensive list of resources and have connected with caring communities that can offer both practical assistance and emotional solace.
Please remember, it’s okay to seek help, and it’s okay to feel overwhelmed. You're part of a community that cares deeply and is here to support you throughout this journey.
Talk to your health care providers about resources in your community.
International Wave of Light
Around the world at 7pm on October 15th we take a moment of remembrance for those who have experienced pregnancy loss and loss of a baby or babies.
To learn more about this day visit pail website: https://pailnetwork.sunnybrook.ca/memorial-events/october-15-international-wave-light-toolkit/
Resources – Support Groups and Information
offers volunteer facilitated support groups in a number of locations (both partners are welcome), individual support over the phone or online, and several annual events of remembrance.
The Compassionate Friends (TCF) provides a safe environment, supporting bereaved parents grieving the loss of a child; no matter the age or cause.
March of Dimes has resources available to families dealing with loss.
The Perinatal Mental Health Program provides mental health assessment and treatment to Mount Sinai Hospital patients and their partners during pregnancy and the postpartum period for up to a year.
Resources for dads who have experienced a loss.
Resources - Literature
PAIL Network order for bereavement booklets
A free kit for parents dealing with loss to help them understand and cope.
‘Sam and Finn’ was written by twin-loss mom Kate Polley, who struggled to find a book to remember her twin son Sam who she lost 10 hours after birth. She wanted a lasting memory for her surviving twin, Finn, and Sam’s older siblings. Kate only wrote the book for her family and after posting a few images on the Facebook twin loss group she was a member of she had numerous requests for copies. Move on a few years and after a chance meeting with a UK publisher, Gail Powell, they now offer a large range of beautifully crafted memory books for families who have experienced the devastating loss of a baby or multiple babies at Book Store - Personalised Loss Book (lossbooks.com). The collection includes both general titles and personalized books, allowing families to honour their unique journey of grief and remembrance. These books provide a comforting space to preserve precious memories, offering a gentle way to remember, reflect, and heal. Each story is lovingly illustrated and written to capture the lasting impact of these tiny lives, ensuring they are never forgotten. Beautifully illustrated and Whether you are a parent, a family member, or a close friend, our books offer solace and support during the most difficult of times."
Receive 10% off your purchase with the discount code – lossbooks10
Resources - Videos
Retated preemie chats
For healthcare professionals: It’s important to support parents in a way that acknowledges the uniqueness of their loss and gives them permission to grieve.